Most of the time, when we get upset with what is happening in our life, especially when things don’t go as planned, we begin to lose faith in ourselves, forgetting that what is lying around the corner, might be the best for us, even if it doesn’t seem that way. You just have to trust in the process.
When you have to deal with negative, unexpected change, it does get scary.
Because there is always something to lose, or something to let go. Things can’t always remain the same. You should have this in mind. We need to learn to accept change. Some people do handle, or appear to handle change better than others.
My Guest Blogger is: Maja
Bio: Maja loves writing, photography and helping people. Much of her work deals with mental health. Being a former nurse, almost a midwife, helps her to pass her own experience. She blogs at Lampelina.
Escaping Depression through Art
Many people tend to express their emotions through different kinds of art. I have a difficulty to find the right words many times, while I can easily take some pictures.
The most important life lesson we will ever learn, will be from the bad decisions we make. However, those bad decisions present us with the perfect opportunity to improve ourselves.
Each time I look at you, I realize my love for you grows deeper, and richer. You are like a spring of fresh water in a dry land.
The two hardest tests on the road to transformation, are the patience to wait for the right moment, and the courage not to be disappointed with what we encounter.
Everyone hides their feelings every now and again, especially when we are feeling sad. Hiding or suppressing your emotions is not good for your mind and body.
We do not see things ‘the way they are‘, we see things ‘the way we are‘.
Most people put too much pressure on themselves, in relation to the future, when all that truly matters most is the ‘NOW.’
A toxic behaviour is one that is harmful. I wrote about it HERE. Many people who exhibit toxic traits are oblivious to their own behaviours.
In today’s world, a large part of the society expects people to be flawless creatures. There is so much pressure, and people are trying so hard to appear perfect. This has led to so many people becoming even more anxious, stressed, and unhappy with their lives.
What time is it?
The advent of time-telling devices allowed us to measure time accurately. We set alarms and wear watches on our wrists. We can’t deny the dominance of time over our lives. We go in circles, trying to chase the hands of the clock.
Dear White Rose Maria,
You said your heart is sticky, and so it tends to glue those dear to you, firmly. But then, when they walked away, they ripped it off; opened.
The darkest nights are when the stars shine brighter.
Almost everyone has faced difficulty we know nothing about. Pain (very unpleasant circumstances) can be a great motivator for people to change. Some people never change until they feel a little pain. Something in their life must be uncomfortable, or unacceptable, before they will consider doing something new, unfamiliar or different.
“Look deep into nature, and then you will understand everything better” – Albert Einstein
Nature is always speaking to us, but we must listen intently in order to understand its language. If you seek internal answers, nature can help. It can make us aware of things in regards to ourselves as well as circumstances in our lives we may need assistance with. Below are some of nature’s secret messages:
It doesn’t matter how large or small, make an effort to appreciate the things you have accomplished. It shouldn’t end with simply crossing it out from your to-do list.
Thinking outside-the-box, is a concept that involves thinking creatively, innovatively, and freely, and may sometimes oppose the status quo. This can help, when you are struggling to produce new or fresh ideas.
When we feel darkness all around, when things go worse, and nothing seems to work for us, there is one thing that keep us going; HOPE.
“Everything has beauty, but not everyone sees it” – Confucius
There is an unbelievable amount of beauty in our everyday lives, and the things around us, even in stuff you probably wouldn’t give a second glance.
Is that normal?
The concept of ‘normal,’ and what counts as ‘normal behaviour,’ has long been of interest to sociologists. Sociologists have very different approaches to answering the basic, but fundamental question, ‘what is normal‘?
“I live a life of no fairytales.
As I always have been.
Sometimes you have to look past wishes.
For the things that need to be seen.”
“Winning isn’t getting ahead of others. It is getting ahead of yourself” – Roger Staubach
Are some people born blessed, destined to be winners, whereas others are born, destined to stay as losers, no matter how hard they try? Continue reading “Is everybody born a winner?”
Do you want your world wrapped in predictability?
Have you ever felt like, you need all the information, or solutions, as regards the future?
Occasionally, we have doubts about ourselves. These doubts are capable of affecting every facet of our lives, including our health. Low self-esteem leave you feeling sad and insecure.
We all grow up in different situations. Some grow up in toxic environments, while others grow up in healthy situations. Regardless of your experience growing up, no matter how sweet or bitter, there comes a point in your life, when you will decide how you will respond to circumstances/challenges.
This is a simple question, but very difficult to answer. Love is one of the profound emotions we experience as humans. It is one of the most beautiful things in life.
Paradise lures from afar.
I discovered a garden, where the lilies and chrysanthemums flutter. A place where I can quench the thirst of my soul, and rest from the noonday sun. I am safely cocooned in this wonderful dwelling.
What a pleasure it is to read.
Walking into a bookshop may seem magical to some people. To see the shelves neatly lined with books, is like staring at the wonders of the world, all in one place.
Most people have this twisted idea that they don’t deserve or are not worthy of happiness. They may have guilt about their past, and feel they should be punished severely.
The Millennial Generation- Those born between 1981 and 1996 (ages 23 to 38 in 2019).
The millennial generation is one of the most criticized generation. But I think they need more than just rebukes and criticisms. They need guidance.
We all get the same amount of time each day. But you can make more of the time you have. Continue reading “Five minutes ideas- Some things you could do in just 5 minutes”
There is a voice inside of you that whispers all day long…
The inner voice suggest something very personal, that is familiar to everyone of us. It is something more refine, unlike the unimportant talk we experience almost on a daily basis.
Crossroads simply means a decision point; a turning point or opportunity to change direction, course, or goal. It is a place of decision, that will affect the course of one’s life.
I absolutely love WordPress.
We all have our personal reason(s) for wanting to write for others, or share our interests with others. I believe in some way, we seek to connect with ourselves, or with others.