When you have to deal with negative, unexpected change, it does get scary.
How?
Because there is always something to lose, or something to let go. Things can’t always remain the same. You should have this in mind. We need to learn to accept change. Some people do handle, or appear to handle change better than others.
Life is ever changing, and most times, we have no idea where life is taking us. It is understandable to feel overwhelmed by change. We all have certain expectations of how we would like for things to turn out.
Life can put us in any situation, at any time, and things like losing the people we love, and the things we love, can be devastating.
The history of the world is defined by continual change. Rarely do things or situations remain exactly the same indefinitely. Every thing in life is subject to change.
One thing we must realise, is that change is an integral part of life. It is part of our existence. It is inbuilt. We can’t avoid it. Change becomes easier to handle, when you have a positive outlook about it.
The future may be different after serious life changes, but it doesn’t have to be grim. Life has its terms also, and whether we like it or not, change is one of them.
Be it good or bad, change requires an adjustment of some kind. This takes time and energy. If the demands are too great, it can drain you, and create stress. Nevertheless, life goes on. With time, we will all adjust to things, because time is the only thing that heals all wounds. Life after this change may not be the same, but it can still be rewarding and self-fulfilling.
Such a great read. Keep writing.😊
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Thank you so much, Tanya. 🙂
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You’re most welcome.
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Absolutely true
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Thank you so much. ❤
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Thank you. ☺💝
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Beautifully written!!
Peace, Tamara
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Thank you so much, Tamara. ❤
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My pleasure!!
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In the words of the ancient Chinese tale: “I don’t know if it’s good or bad. I just know it is.”
Here we are with changes that seem either negative or positive, but no one knows the future. We don’t know if this is good or bad. We just know it is.
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Exactly, Sarah.
True words.
No one really knows. 🙂❤
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That’s all we can do… Adjust ❤️
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Exactly. ❤
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Change is the one constant, always swinging back regardless of whether we like its direction or not. It can be hard to accept, but yes, when we can, it takes away a lot of pain and frustration.
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Yeah. It can be really hard to accept.
But with time, the pain will fade away.
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Meditation and refraining from overthinking and accepting the present moment for whateved it brings is a way to detach from the physical world and find inner peace according to Eckhart Tolle…
There is a saying that says LIKE :” God help me change what I can and accept with love what I can not change …”
The kingdom of God is within you as Christ says …
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True words.
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Through both joy and pain ,
We transcend grow and gain…
Never say that life has ended in vain ,
All that God sends is a blissful rain ,
Dark clouds water the trees and roses ,
So divinie spirit would forever remain ,
To restore life and reality sustain ,
After stormy weather , in faith , remain ,
that the sky would brightly the sun contain , …
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So beautiful. ❤
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I think change is easier as you grow older because you have all the previous change-experiences to look back on and encourage you.
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Indeed.
Thank you, Priscilla.
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Wise words, echoing the Buddhist doctrine of annica (impermanence). Change might not be easy, but it is inevitable, so we have to learn to cope with it. The only constant in our world is change.
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Indeed. Change is the only constant.
Thank you so much for the affirmation, Platypus Man. ❤
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I love change. Makes life interesting.
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Of course. It does.
Although change, most especially negative change, is never easy, but we must learn to adjust.
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And when we learn to adjust, we grow as well.
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Yes. We do. ☺
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I agree – life will go on, and change is part of life. There will be a new normal, and that will be ok.
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Exactly, Jess. Well said.
Thank you. 🙂❤
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I cannot agree enough! Let’s leave the comfort zone for a min
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It’s good to do so.
But most people find it so difficult.
Thank you l, Cynthia. ❤
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We all find it so difficult but once you leave, it’s worth every effort❤️
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Thank you so much. 🙂
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When the sky gets dark ,
And gray clouds litter a lightening spark,
God would nourish all with rain ,
To bring joy and transcend the pain,
Nothing really goes in vain ,
Always thrive to bless again ,
In fantasy, you thrive and gain ,
Blessed you would forever and ever remain ,
The blue sky can sunshine contain …
The universe shall a rainbow to you explain ,
Drops of rain would livelihood retain…
For life to be renewed with gain
Again , and again and again …
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Thank you so much for your beautiful thoughts, ecohorizons.
It made me smiled. 🙂
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Love and light from Lebanon
Regards from Wael …
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We live in utter transience. One of the best things to come out of the current situation is that we are enabled to face that. It’s what makes every event precious. Nothing repeats, noting stays the same.
Love this post.
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True words, Bryan.
Indeed. Nothing stays the same.
Thank you so much for your beautiful thoughts. ❤
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Reblogged this on Semiología de la Comunicación and commented:
El cambio es inevitable … ./Porque siempre hay algo que perder o algo que dejar ir. _La vida siempre está cambiando, y la mayoría de las veces, no tenemos idea de a dónde nos lleva la vida. -La historia del mundo se define por el cambio continuo. . {El futuro puede ser diferente después de cambios serios en la vida, pero no tiene que ser sombrío}. ^Ya sea bueno o malo, el cambio requiere un ajuste de algún tipo^. _ Con el tiempo, todos nos adaptaremos a las cosas, perspectiva positiva al respecto¨.
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Thank you so much for sharing.
Much appreciation. 🙏❤
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Reblogged this on The Searchlight.
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Thank you so much.
Much appreciation. 🙏❤
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It’s my pleasure, friend.
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☺❤
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We cannot possibly stop the changes, but definitely can adjust to them. Thank you for sharing such an important message.
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You’re welcome. ☺
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Hi there, after reading this amazing paragraph i am as well delighted to share my knowledge here with friends.
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Thanks.
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Well said!
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Thank you, Harsh. 🙂
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Yep!
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Thanks. 🙂
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Mind-blowing!!!
If we accept the changes with an open heart life becomes much easy. Absolutely right some changes can drain us in every way and life is continuous chain of changes.
Keep going ❣️❣️❣️❣️
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Beautiful.
Nice one, Falcon. 🙂
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Accepting change is difficult when it is unplanned. The system must absorb the shock and how quick can you do it, detetmines how an individual handles change.
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You’re not far from the truth. 🙂
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Change is the only constant. Well said.
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Thank you.
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Wonderful thoughts and truth 💚
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Thank you. ❤
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You’re welcome 💚
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Nice post. We need to learn to adapt to change because it is the only constant thing.
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Indeed.
Thank you, nianni. ❤
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Like!! Great article post.Really thank you! Really Cool.
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Thank you.
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Thank you so much. ❤
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Thank you so much for the nomination.
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Great wisdom.Thank you.Change is inevetible,but we are not willing to accept this sadly.
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Change is quite difficult to accept.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts. 🙂
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So very true- change is inevitable. Especially now with the pandemic. We’ll all be changed by it forever. An excellent penning. Peace and light.
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Thank you for your thoughts, Lance.
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It’s always a great honor! Blessings.
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WONDERFUL Post.thanks for sharing..more wait .. …
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Change is indeed an integral part of life… Beautifully written!😃💫
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Thank you. 🙂❤
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