The darkest nights are when the stars shine brighter.
Almost everyone has faced difficulty we know nothing about. Pain (very unpleasant circumstances) can be a great motivator for people to change. Some people never change until they feel a little pain. Something in their life must be uncomfortable, or unacceptable, before they will consider doing something new, unfamiliar or different.
Trauma or pain, can provide us with a lot of energy and focus. In other words, some people use pain to motivate themselves. They view stressors as positive challenges, rather than threatening problems.
In a way, you will be happy that you were bullied as a kid, because it made you learnt a great deal about compassion towards others. It also help you see the humanity in each person you meet, on your journey here on earth. Sometimes, we go through the worst, to get to the best.
We are all humans, dreaming of living a good life. Everyone has been through something that challenged them, that hurt them, or changed them, or broke them. So, you have to believe that each day will be better.
There are no disappointments in life, only lessons learned. We all have a story. You are a motivational speaker, probably because of the pain you went through in the past. You studied medicine, because you once suffered from a terrible illness. You are able to write great poems, because of the pain you feel in your heart. Some people became counsellors, because they were once abused.
So, no more regrets. Those challenges was a part of your GROWTH PROCESS. You are wiser and stronger now.
Good stuff!
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Thank you, Hale.
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Amazing post! Very well said by you..our pain will become our wisdom one day, the condition is we have to take it in a learning approach 👌👌👍👍
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You’re absolutely right.
Our pain will truly become our wisdom one day.
The learning approach is really what matters.
Thanks a lot for your comment.
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Amazing post
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Thank you, Ishaan! 🙏
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This is such a painfully glorious truth!
Every time I go through a season of extreme pain, I wish I could skip it and wonder why I have to endure it.
Every time I get out on the other side of that same season, I wouldn’t want to undo it. I’ve changed. I can always see the good that God has brought out of it – after the fact, of course. 🙂
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You’re not alone. Almost everyone wish they could skip it too, Sara.
It’s good to know you’re able to see the good that God always bring from the pain.
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This is totally relatable.
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Thank you!
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This is a nice post. I love it 🥰. Keep up the good work ☘️ 😁
Please can you show a little blessing by checking out my blog? It would put a big smile on my face. It will also encourage me to do more, thanks 😊
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Thank you so much, Vincent, for your kind words. I will definitely check out your blog.
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Thanks 😊 I know you will
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Love your description of how humans develop their emotional intelligence, emotional competency, and the irony attached to the change process. Thank you.
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You’re welcome.
Thanks for your kind words.
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“…the Father of mercies and God of all comfort… comforts us in all our tribulation, that we may be able to comfort those who are in any trouble, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God” (2 Cor. 1: 3-5).
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Thank you for your thoughts, Anna.🙏
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Awesome post! Very well put! I can relate! I’m a published Author of four books and an Advocate for the bullied, because I was bullied horribly. Being bullied also taught me compassion for the underdog and how to spot a liar a mile away! I agree that pain can put us on the right path and give us our calling in life!
Thank you for this great post!
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Thank you so much, Cherie.
It’s good to know you’re an advocate for the bullied, and a writer also.
Well done.👏
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Thank you so much, Freethinker! It means a lot!
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You’re welcome.😄
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Thanks, Cherie.
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I am really touched after reading this post… Thank you for sharing your thoughts… Loved it!♥️
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You’re welcome, Sarah.❤
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This was a very much needed read for me right now. I’m going through some big life changes… Just trying to learn and see the light at the end of the tunnel. Thank you for writing this!!!
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You’re welcome.
You will definitely overcome whatever challenges you’re going through right now.
Have faith in yourself. Believe it is possible.
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I know. Thank you for your kind words ❤️
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Thank you so much.🙏
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my pleasure
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Thank you so much, Craig.🙏❤
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Reblogged this on Say Yes to YOUR Potential.
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Thanks a million.🙂
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As the saying goes—No pain,no gain.
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Yepp..!!
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👍👍👍
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Thank you.
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You are welcome.(❁´◡`❁)
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Your posts never fails to ignite motivation and confidence in me! ❤️❤️🤩
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I’m trying to fix something with the post.
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I got a new notification actually. Your new post it said!😀
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Wait a minute. Did you turn on my post notification on your blog?
That means you recurve a notification each time I publish a post? I
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Oh yes I did! I didn’t wanna miss any of your posts buddy!!❤️❤️💕❤️❤️
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Aww…shucksss 😊
That’s so sweet and kind of you, Aathmana.
Your heart is beautiful. ❤❤❤
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You are beautiful at heart too! I was so lucky to meet a wonderful person like you!!🤩🤩
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Me too.
I consider myself very lucky to have such an amazing buddy like you. 🙂❤❤
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❤️💕❤️
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Thank you so much, Aatmana. 🙂❤
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Great thought…really motivating… Loved it ❤️
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Thank you so much. ❤
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Great post, you speak the truth my friend. Have a blessed day. Love 💕 Joni
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Thank you so much, Joni. 🙂❤
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My pleasure my friend. Be blessed. Love ❤️ Joni
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Love this I have ptsd and I believe the pain I went through forced and actions change within me thank you for sharing this very grateful 👏🙏
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You are welcome. 🙂
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Brilliant post with a powerful message!
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Thank you so much, Harsh. 🙂❤
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Ooo. This is really good!… I wanna give you an award for this post! It’s amazing! The message is very needed. 😄
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Thank you, Ruthie. 🙂
Much appreciation. 🙏❤
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“Sometimes, we go through the worst, to get to the best.” That’s a true word! A top quality blog post here. Motivational, inspirational and well written! Keep up the awesome writing! 😊
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Wow!
Thank you so much.
It means a lot. 🙏❤
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Your welcome. Keep up the great work 🙏💛
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I have nominated you for the Vincent Ehindero Blogging Award! Please see my latest blog post for details. I look forward to reading your response to my questions upon acceptance of the award! 😀
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Thank you.
Much appreciation. 🙂
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Your welcome. I look forward to reading your response to my questions upon acceptance of the award! 😀
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Life is full of changes and we must accept and absorb to the better tomorrow. Keep the spirit and spread positive vibes. Have a good safe healthy day.
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Thank you so much for your kind words. 🙂
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You are welcome . Have a wonderful day
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You too.
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sO TRUUUUUEEEE
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Yep. 🙂
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It sounds terrible, to have a broken, unhappy childhood to learn to feel compassion. I would choose a different way to learn epic and compassion. And childhood is a start in life should be winged. I’m from those people who don’t want pain. They agree if it must be, but they don’t need pain to motivate themselves. Man, however, is a strange creature. Best regards Barbara from Gdańsk
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I appreciate your thoughts, Barbara.
Honestly, life is full of unexpected and unwanted situations/challenges.
Believe me, no one wants to be motivated by pain, but when it does happen, we have to try to overcome it.
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Yes, yes. 🙂
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🙂❤
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Like!! Thank you for publishing this awesome article.
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Thank you.
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I love looking through a post that can make people think. Also, many thanks for permitting me to comment!
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Welcome
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